You Can Let Go
Make Peace with Your Past, Break Free from Offense, and Move Forward with God
About
Let's face it: people are often disappointing. Sometimes they're downright hurtful. And in our reactionary culture, it's easy to feel wronged, offended, and weighed down when people trample our feelings. But living in hurt and resentment can steal our God-given joy. The good news? We actually have more control over how other people make us feel than we might think.
In You Can Let Go, Alexandra Hoover dives deep into our willingness to be offended, uncovering our wounded pride, our insecurities, and our misplaced trust in the things (and people) of this world. With great compassion, she helps us
· get to the root of why we feel offended
· understand why certain offenses hit harder than others
· find our identity in Christ rather than in how others view or treat us
· handle offenses with confidence, grace, and acceptance
· turn our insecurities into sources of empowerment
· embrace a life marked by deep acceptance and emotional freedom
Offense is something that we can not only get over but also live free from. Discover how to make peace with what's happened in the past and learn to live unoffendable.
Endorsements
"I needed to read this book. Alexandra Hoover brought it all to the table in You Can Let Go: her real, her hard, and God's truth about how to get free from offense. Get ready for some real help where far too many of us get stuck."
Lisa Whittle, Bible teacher and bestselling author of Jesus over Everything
"Alexandra Hoover is a strong, gracious leader who women need to hear from. She's our gentle and firm friend, reminding us of the kingdom truth that we can let go but also compassionately guiding us through that process. This book is full of wise insight, generous stories, and practical tools to help women live free. It's a must-read!"
Jess Connolly, pastor, founder of Go + Tell Gals, author of Tired of Being Tired and Breaking Free from Body Shame
"This book is raw and real and healing. Holding on to offense can suffocate the life Christ died to give us. There is another way to live, and in this book, Alexandra walks that path with us."
Sheila Walsh, author and TV host
"This book is the product of great courage. I read Alexandra's story with my heart in my throat, because she has done the difficult work of excavating her pain in order to understand it, heal it, and guide others through the same journey. If you are struggling with bitterness, unforgiveness, or holding a grudge, this book is going to help set you free."
Sharon Hodde Miller, author of The Cost of Control
"Alexandra is not only my co-worker but also my friend. I've seen firsthand how the message of this book has shaped her life, her family, and our church. Her wisdom comes from hard-earned experience, and her words carry the weight of real victory. I can't wait for you to experience the freedom and hope she so powerfully offers in these pages."
Nick Connolly, author and lead pastor at Bright City Church
"Disappointment, betrayal, and relational pain are unavoidable in this life, but they don't have to leave us crushed by offense. Alexandra is truthful but gentle with our hearts as she exposes the trap of offense and its maladaptive impact that often goes unaddressed. If you've been paralyzed by your pain, You Can Let Go is an invitation to break free and loosen your grip on offense so you can more tightly cling to Christ."
Dr. Sarita T. Lyons, speaker, Bible teacher, church leader, psychotherapist, and bestselling author
"Alexandra carries a flashlight into the shadows of offense--a topic too often overlooked in faith circles--and leads the way with courage and clarity. Through her storytelling and willingness to go first, she reminds us that healing isn't some distant, impossible destination but a path we can begin walking today. To know Alexandra is to understand that she shows up to these pages as more than an author; she is a grace-filled leader, a trusted friend, and a steady presence who never sways from the opportunity to guide others toward deeper freedom and wholeness."
Hannah Brencher, author of The Unplugged Hours and Fighting Forward
"You Can Let Go is infused with Alexandra Hoover's trademark honesty for those stuck in pain. The hard-won revelations within these pages are both biblical and practical, making freedom feel accessible again for anyone who has lost hope. With this book, Alexandra ensures that no one must drown in the bitter waters of offense. It is both a kind exhortation for the wounded heart and a bold battle cry against the lies that keep us chained to the past."
Faith Eury Cho, pastor and author of Experiencing Friendship with God
"Alexandra gives us a road map for how to handle deep hurt and steward our pain in a way that moves us toward becoming better rather than becoming bitter. I'm so grateful she's chosen to use her wounds to help others heal. I pray that God does the same for you as you read this book."
Debra Fileta, LPC, author, speaker, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselor's Network
"The question isn't if you will get hurt or offended. The reality is that you will get hurt and offended, so what will you do with all the emotions that come along with that? You Can Let Go by Alexandra Hoover is such a helpful guide in processing these emotions, living out of the freedom found in Christ, and not being trapped by the burden of resentment. If you're tired of letting others control your emotional well-being and ready to reclaim your God-given joy, this book will be the catalyst for profound change in how you respond to life's inevitable disappointments."
Joel Muddamalle, PhD, author of The Hidden Peace: Finding True Security, Strength, and Confidence Through Humility
"In You Can Let Go, Alexandra Hoover writes with the kind of wisdom that can come only from someone who's let God meet her in the depths of pain and offense and who's chosen to live in freedom anyway. This book is a balm for anyone who feels stuck in the ache of relational wounds. With spiritual insight and pastoral tenderness, Alexandra gently guides us toward the kind of emotional healing that only Jesus can offer. Every page feels like a sacred invitation to release the past, trust God more fully in the present, and walk unburdened into the future He has for us."
Cassandra Speer, bestselling author, Bible teacher, podcast host, and vice president of Her True Worth
"We often find ourselves drawn to watching videos and following instructions to build and create things that are both beautiful and meaningful to us. But what if we applied that same level of commitment and intention to healing the wounds and deep disappointments in our lives? You Can Let Go offers a candid guide with practical steps for moving toward healing. Alexandra's personal stories of pain and struggle serve as a guide to a process that isn't instantaneous but is within reach."
Noemi Chavez, pastor at Revive Church
The Author
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Alexandra Hoover
Alexandra Hoover is a compassionate writer, a sought-after speaker, and the author of Eyes Up and Without Wavering. With a heart for inspiring others, she combines biblical wisdom, practical insights, and a deep passion for helping...
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