We Need to Talk

How to Successfully Navigate Conflict

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Grow through conflict into a healthier you

Conflict is a normal part of our lives and relationships. But the desire to avoid it and the tendency to handle it poorly can get us stuck--or even in trouble. In this practical and approachable book, therapist Dr. Linda Mintle expertly leads you through successful conflict management so that you can enjoy more secure and peaceful relationships. She offers real-world advice based on solid research for marriages, parenting, extended family, ex-spouses, blended families, and friendships. You will learn to

· approach conflict in ways that work
· problem solve and be more confident
· negotiate differences
· forgive and move on
· strengthen relationships even when conflict seems unsolvable

Dr. Mintle helps you understand your personal approach to conflict, how it developed, and what you can do to effectively engage with others. Throughout, she directs you to your ultimate source of relational transformation: a loving God.

If you want to build and maintain stronger relationships despite conflict, We Need to Talk is the place to start.


"I cannot urge you enough to go into that talk you need to have, having read this book first. It will give you hope, skills, insight, wisdom, and biblical truth." --John Trent, PhD, Gary D. Chapman Chair of Marriage and Family Ministry and Therapy, Moody Theological Seminary, Chicago; author of The Blessing, Life Mapping, and The Language of Love

"Never have I read a book that so thoughtfully and clearly offers solutions for one of life's most troubling issues. Everyone who is married, an in-law, a parent, or simply one who loves another person must read this book."--Meg Meeker, MD, bestselling author, Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters; cohost, Family Talk with Dr. James Dobson


Dr. Linda Mintle is a national speaker and bestselling author. She is the Chair of the Division of Behavioral Health at the College of Osteopathic Medicine at Liberty University. Dr. Mintle appears regularly on national broadcasts and is a national news contributor in mental health. In addition, she hosts her own BeliefNet blog, Doing Life Together. She lives in Virginia.


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"'All relationships have "We need to talk" moments.' If those words from Dr. Mintle's book nail where you're at today--'We need to talk'--then you probably have another problem. What do you say? How do you get started? Do you really need to have that 'talk'? Won't it make things worse to bring it up? Won't it just go away? The answers to these questions and so many others are right in this book. I cannot urge you enough to go into that talk you need to have, having read this book first. It will give you hope, skills, insight, wisdom, and biblical truth. Help so that you'll end up saying, 'Lord, I am so glad we had that talk.'"

John Trent, PhD, Gary D. Chapman Chair of Marriage and Family Ministry and Therapy, Moody Theological Seminary, Chicago; author of The Blessing, Life Mapping, and The Language of Love

"In this outstanding work, Dr. Mintle helps us tackle an issue (conflict) we try so desperately to avoid and makes it seem--dare I say it--enjoyable? Never have I read a book that so thoughtfully and clearly offers solutions for one of life's most troubling issues. Everyone who is married, an in-law, a parent, or simply one who loves another person must read this book. It will be as relevant in fifty years as it is today."

Meg Meeker, MD, bestselling author of Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters and cohost of Family Talk with Dr. James Dobson


The Author

  1. Dr. Linda Mintle

    Dr. Linda Mintle

    Linda S. Mintle, PhD, is a national speaker, blogger, radio host of her own show (The Dr. Linda Mintle show), and bestselling author of twenty books. With twenty-seven years of clinical practice as a therapist and coach, her current clinical and...

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