You Lost Me Discussion Guide

Starting Conversations Between Generations...On Faith, Doubt, Sex, Science, Culture, and Church

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Identifying a problem is not a solution. But starting a conversation is the beginning of restoration.

In You Lost Me, the bestselling coauthor of unChristian trained his researcher’s eye on Christians aged 18 to 29, exposing why they leave the church and rethink their faith. This penetrating discussion guide and the accompanying DVD will help you and your small group start an intergenerational conversation about the most pressing faith issues of our day.

You’ll discover why the younger generation often sees the church as overprotective, shallow, anti-intellectual, exclusive, repressive, and intolerant of doubt. You’ll discuss tough questions that resist pat answers. And you’ll discover loving, biblical ways to reconnect to young people with kindness, compassion, and humility.

If you care about the future of the church, you won’t want to miss You Lost Me.

The Authors

  1. David Kinnaman

    David Kinnaman

    David Kinnaman is coauthor of unChristian, You Lost Me, and Good Faith. He is president of Barna Group, a leading research and communications company that works with churches, nonprofits, and businesses ranging from film studios to...

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  2. Aly Hawkins

    Aly Hawkins

    ALY HAWKINS and her husband, Bryan Ashmore, live, write, and make music in Southern California. Aly is the author of Shine: Beautiful Inside and Out, as well as numerous articles. Married for five years, Aly and Bryan are passionate about living at the...

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