Thriving in Love and Money Discussion Guide

5 Game-Changing Insights about Your Relationship, Your Money, and Yourself

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Now more than ever, we need to come together around money.

If the thought of talking about money with your partner makes you tense, join the club! Ninety-two percent of couples have tension around, fight about, or avoid money conversations. Or we may think our spouse just doesn't "get" what we care about.

It doesn't have to be that way! This is your chance for money to be a source of connection rather than conflict. To understand why your spouse handles things in a certain way--and why you do. Turns out that money tension is not about the money, it's about how money makes us feel. If you've ever been irritated by your partner's tendency to eat out (or conversely, to plan for every penny), or wished you could explain your compulsion to build up extra hours at work, now you can understand why and what to do about it in a way that works for both of you.

Whether in a group or on your own, whether your money situation is shaky or secure, this experience will help you transform your relationship and come together around money like never before.

You will need:
- This six-part discussion guide
- The companion videos (see code inside)
- The book Thriving in Love and Money.

Our thanks to Thrivent for fueling this research and these resources.

"I highly recommend Thriving in Love & Money for all who want to replace conflict with harmony."
--Gary Chapman, PhD, author of The 5 Love Languages

Both with graduate degrees from Harvard, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn are best-selling authors, popular speakers, and internationally renowned social researchers. Their books have sold three million copies in twenty-five languages. Shaunti has worked on Wall Street and Capitol Hill. Jeff is an attorney and entrepreneur. They live in Atlanta with their two teenagers. Learn more at

The Authors

  1. Shaunti Feldhahn

    Shaunti Feldhahn

    Shaunti Feldhahn ( is a bestselling author, popular speaker, and nationally-renowned social researcher. Fifteen years ago she and her husband, Jeff, stumbled over some things they just didn't "get" about each other. They have used...

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  2. Jeff Feldhahn

    Jeff Feldhahn

    Jeff Feldhahn is a bestselling author, popular speakers,and nationally-renowned social researcher. Fifteen years ago he and his wife, Shaunti, stumbled over some things they just didn't "get" about each other. They have used their analytical...

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