Thank You for Rejecting Me
Transform Pain into Purpose and Learn to Fight for Yourself
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"Because rejection is inevitable, this book is a must-read!"
--Lauren Scruggs, New York Times bestselling author, wellness enthusiast, lifestyle blogger, and entrepreneur
Our stories are riddled with the sting of rejection. It's feeling like a failure or being heartbroken. It's being left out or misunderstood. It's the parent who neglected us or the person who betrayed our trust. It's even in the way we think or talk about ourselves and question our relationship with God.
Whether it happened in grade school or last week, rejection can leave deep scars that affect our relationships, our self-worth, and our identities for years to come. And while we can't control when rejection appears, we can control how we react when it does. With chapters that focus on some of life's biggest rejections--being betrayed, abused, misunderstood, heartbroken, sexually shamed, and many more--Thank You for Rejecting Me offers practical tools to heal from the past, take back your power, and walk in strength, victory, and love in the future.
"Kait flips the all-too-familiar relationship so many of us have with rejection. Thank you, Kait, for teaching us with grace and nuance that if we have the courage to press in, rejection can actually be one of our greatest allies." --Kat Harris, author of Sexless in the City and host of The Refined Collective podcast
"Kait has written a book that helps you look inward, deal with shame, and move forward with hope."--Jonathan Pokluda, host of the Becoming Something podcast and bestselling author of Welcome to Adulting and Outdated
"Thank You for Rejecting Me will show you how to live your boldest, bravest, and strongest life possible. My friends, this is a must-read!"--Mike Foster, author, counselor, and host of the Fun Therapy podcast
Kait Warman is a California-based relationship coach, online educator, speaker, and host of the Heart of Dating podcast. Her mission is to empower men and women to have the courage to own their story, walk in victory, thrive with purpose, and discover clarity and vision in their lives and relationships. This is her first book.
"Rejection so easily entangles us. It creates fear, it stunts our emotional growth and trust in people, it triggers feelings of unworthiness, and it becomes a mechanism of self-protection. This book offers wisdom in how to react to rejection and clearly shows how we can turn heartbreaking wounds into something purposeful and redemptive. Because rejection is inevitable, this book is a must-read!"
Lauren Scruggs, New York Times bestselling author, wellness enthusiast, lifestyle blogger, and entrepreneur
"One thing is for certain: we need more voices like Kait's in the world, helping us navigate the hard-to-talk-about subjects like rejection, heartbreak, and insecurity. Unafraid to bring out the real talk (with a perfect amount of candor), Kait invites us into a bigger story of what life can look like when we stop avoiding the hard stuff and start fighting back. Don't be afraid to lean all the way into this book--you're in the best hands!"
Hannah Brencher, TED speaker and author of Fighting Forward
"Kait's honesty and vulnerability will keep you nodding your head and turning the page. So many relationship books are written by married people who don't understand today's unique challenges. So many of them focus on just helping you find love. Kait has written a book that helps you look inward, deal with shame, and move forward with hope. If you've ever felt pain from love, Kait's story will help you find healing."
Jonathan Pokluda, host of the Becoming Something podcast and bestselling author of Welcome to Adulting and Outdated
"Kait has written a phenomenal guide for taking radical ownership of our stories by showing us how to maximize the power that resides within our pain. Through no-holds-barred vulnerability and the willingness to tell the unfiltered truth about life's messiness, Thank You for Rejecting Me will show you how to live your boldest, bravest, and strongest life possible. My friends, this is a must-read!"
Mike Foster, author, counselor, and host of the Fun Therapy podcast
"Kait flips the all-too-familiar relationship so many of us have with rejection. Instead of hating it, she teaches us, through her own story, that the rejection we (meaning every human being on the planet) experience on macro and micro levels every single day can be an access point to untapped growth, freedom, and God's presence. Thank you, Kait, for teaching us with grace and nuance that if we have the courage to press in, rejection can actually be one of our greatest allies."
Kat Harris, author of Sexless in the City and host of The Refined Collective podcast
"Thank You for Rejecting Me smashes fear in the face with a fierce uppercut and will help you refocus on your promising future with God. You'll crack up at Kait's playful humor, but you'll also weep through some of her challenging stories and walk away thinking differently about your painful past. Grab this book!"
Rashawn Copeland, founder of I'm So Blessed Daily and author of Start Where You Are
"Nothing holds us back like rejection. The memory of past rejection and the fear of future rejection causes us to live small and afraid -- showing up as only a sliver of our full selves, revealing only a curated shell of who we really are. And in the process, we miss out on so much. We miss out on the beauty of being truly seen, known, and loved. We miss out on finding out who God created us to be. But in Thank You for Rejecting Me, Kait shows us how to break free from that crippling fear and step into true freedom. This book will change your life. I'm buying copies for every woman I know."
Stephanie May Wilson, author, podcaster, and speaker
"Rejection can either break you or remake you. Kait's story is a vulnerable, beautiful, humorous look into how heartbreak can be turned to hope. You'll laugh, you'll cry, and then you'll be challenged to see yourself as the woman God made you to be: beautiful, loved, and accepted just as you are."
Debra Fileta, professional counselor, creator of TrueLoveDates.com, and host of the Love + Relationships podcast
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